MY FRIEND by TOSIN BUCKNOR

I once had a friend who was quit ill. The least of what he had was a cold. But he also had malaria, and doctors suspected he was anemic as he was severely jaundiced.

My friend was a lovely boy to look at. Well, in parts for some reasons he was developing skin allergies from things that were destroying him internally and so he had some patches' here and there. But he was also vibrant in certain areas and you could see and feel that in him.

He had this wide grin that drew you in, and even though there were a few teeth missing and one or two of the teeth seems to be decaying, you always smile back.

He had a firm handshake and you might have resisted at first, but once you held out your hand to him and he shoot his, you felt a warmth radiate.

My friend was basically of an easy going nature. He liked parties and football. But every once in a while, he would lose temper and then you would be so afraid.

These outburst were temporary but the doctors feared that without some forms of psychological help, he would become permanently angry and at war with himself. These could be true since his outbursts have started increasing and these days last for longer.

My friend refuses to wear glasses although it was obvious he needed them. You can tell by the way he stumbles sometimes and always pulls the paper close to read.

But I think he thinks wearing glasses will be uncool. Well falling down and breaking your hip is also uncool but hey! Who listen to me anyway?

And speaking of listening... that is something my friend is not good at. Listening.

I think he pretends to listen. He keeps quiet and nod a lot when people talk and then turn right to the opposite! It annoys me sometimes because really, some things that are said are for his own good and I will tell you of some things we said.

YOU see, my friend is going to turn fifty I know! I know!

Ideally, one should block the road and bring down heaven and earth. I know people who clear their account just so they can celebrate their fiftieth. People buy new clothes, may be even make new friends. It is not easy to be fifty and as they say, 'then go take'

So, it is only natural that my friend wants to celebrate his birthday right? But you see, my friend is ill, he has a cold, and malaria and he is severely jaundiced.

I think the money he withdraws should not be on the biggest cake he can find, a website in his honor, parties in different states and so on.

I think the money he has should be spent on getting himself treated and better!

I think my friends needs to heal his body, his heart, his memories, his mind.

And this is what we have all told him.

But my friend does not listen and he never seems to learn from his past mistakes.
Like that time my friend celebrated his independent from his parent?

He was so excited! but he had no plans of how he would keep himself on his feet for years, what is children will eat from, and what people will think of him, and how to relate to others.

No, Airegin does not listen to anyone and so come October first, he will celebrate.

Possibly, in darkness, with water drawn from a well that is drying up.

And on the second, he will start all over again.